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In America: On a mission
By Miryam Wiley
Saturday, June 21, 2003
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We want to express our gratitude to the community that funds
the special education program by returning to the community
to provide services,” said Randa. "We celebrate altruism
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They arrived at each store and went straight to their routine.
Jeff strummed his guitar with a gentle touch. Then Sandra read the
words of the two-line script they brought along.
“I prefer you to make mistakes in kindness than work miracles
in unkindness. ... Mother Theresa,” she read.
The reading was slow. But Ruthanne Grundfast, their leader, was nearby
to help. There was no rush in the task, just a sense of kindness that
everyone around seemed to appreciate. And this was part of their weekly
service to the community.
Jeff and Sandra, along with Bobbie and Richie, are members of the
Special Peace Corps of the Strawberry Fields Alternative High School
in Millis. At least once a week these young adults with special needs
visit different places and take to each business the gift of presence
and awareness.
“It's a point in time to just step back, reflect and enjoy the
moment,” said Peter Harvey, co-owner of the Millis Package Store,
as he heard Jeff's message. “It's always good to see smiley
faces with an open heart.”
They also perform more traditional tasks such as helping with deliveries.
The day I followed the Special Peace Corps around I got to see them
in action at the Framingham Bakery, the Millis Package Store and the
Bethany House Hope Chest, a few of the businesses they visit weekly.
Everyone's welcoming style told a story of respect and encouragement.
“My Bible has got so many messages in it, I don't know what
is going to happen,” said Laura Warren, of Bethany House Hope
Center. Right after Jeff's message, Warren kissed each of them, then
asked them about Ali.
Ali is another student at the school who takes the gift of singing
to different places in the community, especially nursing homes. While
she is still too young to belong to this program, she comes along
at times and leaves quite an impression.
“Her singing brings tears to my eyes,” said Harkey, who
had also missed her.
Joan Thomas, at the Bakery, attached Jeff's message to the wall, then
led the visitors to the freezer, where they picked up bread packages
and filled large bags they later delivered to the detox center, in
a program of cooperation with the food pantry. On their way out, she
offered them cookies, as she does each week.
“I would like to donate to the Metrowest Harvest and they don't
have anyone to pick it up,” said Thomas. “I'm more than
willing to donate anything extra I have, but I need people to pick
it up. These guys come faithfully each week.”
The Special Peace Corps also picks up food from the food pantry to
deliver to homebound people twice a month.
And if you have driven by the old train station in Millis and seen
a personable guy holding a sign, you have seen Richie making sure
you are safe.
“Honk if you are wearing your seat belt,” says Richie's
sign.
And people do. Many are seen reaching out to their belts and buckling
up right there. Richie smiles and later tells the story of his accomplishments.
Grundfast drives them along with a gentle smile and sense of wonder.
“You develop such strong relationships with them,” she
said. “Patience and love grow along with it.”
I must say I was surprised to learn how these special people seem
to make a difference in other people's lives when they arrive. But
many have seen it.
“It's almost intangible,” said Dot Walsh, program coordinator
at the Peace Abbey.
“I see the in their faces a look of absolute respect, gratitude
and appreciation for a moment. I don't know what goes on in their
minds, but you see in their faces that they are deeply touched.”
Lewis Randa, Strawberry Fields director, said that the Special Peace
Corps grew out of the desire to provide an opportunity to serve, in
the spirit of Jack Kennedy's Peace Corps, but in one's own community.
“We want to express our gratitude to the community that funds
the special education program by returning to the community to provide
services,” said Randa. "We celebrate altruism and compassion."
Grundfast wants to make sure these young people are seen as individuals.
“People can see them as very special people, instead of looking
at them as a group of people with special needs,” she added.
For some who benefit from this community service, the program hits
a note that is, indeed, a welcome sound.
“There is nothing more powerful than something done with purity
and an open heart,” said Harkey. “You know it when you
see it. When you say to someone 'the sun is out,' you need no explanation.
There is nothing more powerful than that. They are performing a service
to me. We all love it! ”
“It's the high point of the week,” he said.
To reach Miryam Wiley, e-mail inamericacolumn@yahoo.com
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