Emily the Sacred Cow Emily served as a loving symbol of courage,
inner wisdom and survival to thousands of people who came to know
and love her
Emily the Cow Escaped from Slaughterhouse
November 14, 1995
Entered Abbey Sanctuary
December 24, 1995
Passed to Greener Pastures
March 30, 2003
Buried behind Gandhi Statue
April 2, 2003
Above:
A model of the life-size bronze statue of Emily that will
be unveiled at the Abbey at her burial site located behind
the statue of Gandhi. It will be at the center of the newly-created
SACRED
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Emily served as a loving symbol of courage, inner
wisdom and survival to thousands of people who came to know and
love her. She encouraged many to embark on the road to vegetarianism
and cruelty-free living while inspiring people to appreciate the
sacredness of all life.
Emily's gentle and loving nature imbued us all with a better understanding
and respect for all creatures with whom we share this planet. This
is her legacy. Emily's spirit will live on in the hearts of minds
of those who were touched by her grace and beauty.
Above: Sri. M. Bairava Sundram from
Sri Laksmi Hindu Temple in Ashland, MA blesses Emily's grave.
Hair clippings from Emily's markings on her forehead and from the
tip of her tail, traces of her blood and a piece of golden thread
(placed through Emily's ear by Hindu priest Krishna Bhatta of the
Lakshmi Temple) were released into the holy river Ganges in the
city of Benares, India. Abbey members Bram and Elizabeth DeVeer
organized and assisted the Temple priest in this traditional sacred
cow ritual on the Ganges River in April 2003.
Poem for Emily and all cows throughout the world.
Taken from Chapel
Prayer Book
April 4, 2003
Emily, I did not know you. You were in the hospital when I visited
the Abbey for the first time.
Today I felt your presence in Lewis remembering you. I saw and touched
and smelled your blanket from India and I visited your grave. I
will return to the Abbey with children, one will be named Emily.
In the mean time and forever, may God bless abundantly everyone
who knew you and learns of you in the future and bless all whom
they know and will know until this blessing includes everyone who
has lived, is living or will be living in the entire world. Namaste,
Cecilia Gilchrest
ARE HUMANS MEANT TO EAT MEAT?
Lewis has asked me
to set down some of my thoughts on Emily.
The spoken words just seem to flow naturally but trying to put
them in writing I become self-conscious. Perhaps it will help
if I think of this as what I would have liked to be able to communicate
to Emily about how much she meant to me--and still does.
Emily, thank you for the gift of your presence in my life.
It was, quite simply, your gift of presence that I will remember
most about you You were always purely and simply present, always
in the moment. You invited every person who came to you to do
the same.
During my many visits to you in your barn over the years you lived
at the Peace Abbey , I now realize that I was receiving darshan.
You reminded me of the true meaning of the word darshan, which
simply means "sight" in Sanskrit--sight of a sacred being.
When I think of the many elaborate efforts I had made over the
years before meeting you to receive darshan at the feet of human
spiritual teachers, I can only smile. I have waited in line for
hours for a momentary hug from Ammachi and driven to another state
to hear Mother Theresa address an audience of thousands. Certainly
these great beings had their own special gifts to share but how
different was your darshan in its utter simplicity! The door to
your barn was always open. Often there were other visitors there
to see you and often we were alone. There was no protocol to being
with you, no schedule of events. You were open and accessible
to all. There were no boundaries of culture or religion. The apparent
difference of species didn't seem to matter either.
You were a living reminder that we are all One. You made no distinctions
and reminded us to do the same. You catalyzed a new awareness
in people by your very presence. One look into your large, luminous
brown eyes communicated so much more than words ever could. Who
can say how many people felt a new awareness of compassion as
they stood quietly with you? I've heard you whimsically described
as the "poster girl" for vegetarianism but you lived beyond all
"-isms" and you changed people not by rhetoric or reproach but
simply by your being. You gave wordless testimony to the urgent
necessity for an all embracing compassion that naturally affected
so much more than what goes on one's dinner plate (although that's
a good place to start). You embodied the title of Michaelle Small
Wright's book " Behaving As If the God in All Life Mattered".
Speaking humbly and gratefully for myself, this is your legacy
to me personally, Emily. I must recommit to living as if the divine
presence in each and every being matters. This will be a lifelong
journey and not an easy one in a world where not all beings live
in the state of all-inclusive harmlessness that you did.
Your memory will be an ongoing reminder that it is important to
try. I will continue to fail often, to be sure. The memorial to
be erected in bronze and marble in your memory will be an outward
and tangible sign of your continued presence in the heart of every
person whose life you touched. And the countless lives you will
continue to touch after the passing of your physical form. I feel
very blessed to have known you in that physical form and will
always be grateful for the joy you brought to my life and the
lives of all the family members and friends I brought to see you.
"Let's go see Emily!" we would say, and a happy sense of anticipation
always filled us as we pulled in through the gates of the Peace
Abbey and made our way over to the barn.
Our visit this Sunday followed the usual pattern until another
visitor told us of your passing. Emily, I wish I had known you
were sick. I would have come and given you Reiki. I wish I had
known your body was lying in the barn draped in sacredness and
surrounded by flowers so that I could have come and been in your
peace-full presence one last time . I wish I had known about your
memorial service so I could have been present. I realize, however
that these regrets are all about me and not about you . There
can be no "final respects" to you, Emily, and there can be no
closure until the last slaughterhouse has closed its doors, until
all beings show compassion to each other, locally and globally.
This is a process that will outlive me, too. Your courageous life
journey will be an ongoing reminder that I must never give up.
You never did.
Kathy Berghorn
Emily Means I Love You
Connie Lawson
I am standing upon the seashore. A ship at the my side spreads
her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean.
She is an object of beauty and strength and I stand and watch her
until at length she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where
the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.
Then someone at my side says; "There! She's gone."
Gone where?
Gone from my sight - that is all. She is just as large in mast and
hull and spar as she was when she left my side, and just as able
to bear her load of living freight to the place of destination.
Her diminished size is in me, not in her; and just at the moment
when some one at my side says, "There! She's gone," there are other
eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the
glad shout, "There she comes!"
On sympathy card from Kathy Berghorn
Emily grooming Journey in the barn a week before she passed away.
Emily's Memorial Service at the
Peace Abbey
Emily was an extraordinary creature that blessed the
lives of thousands and helped countless people on their journey
to vegetarianism.
At the Memorial Service held April 1 at 7 P.M., the standing room
only crowd enjoyed the gentle sounds of the Celtic harp and hammered
dulcimer of Philip and Pam Boulding from Seattle, WA, the flute
of local resident Joe Lillyman and Boston singer/songwriter Ben
Tousley who wrote a children's song about Emily.
After describing Emily's escape from the slaughterhouse and 40 day
sojourn to safety by Meg Randa, one by one, people spoke of the
unusual and sometimes mystical nature of their relationship with
Emily. Many commented on how their lives were changed by being in
relationship with this all but ordinary bovine. Love and appreciation
for Emily brought people together in a spirit of gentleness and
support.
The testimonials to Emily went on for over an hour. A vegetarian
Indian meal, catered by Udupi Bhavan Restaurant of Ashland was shared
following the service.
EMILY
c 1996 by Ben Tousley
chorus: Emily (Emily)
We’re a family (we’re a family)
Of frogs and fish and birds and walking creatures,
Emily (Emily)
We’re a family (we’re a family)
And we want to welcome you as our new teacher.
You jumped the fence, you ran for life
Just when your life would end,
They thought of you as milk and meat,
We know you now as friend.
For forty days and forty nights
You hid out in the woods,
While hunters tried to chase you down
Your lovers brought you food.
Chorus
We brought you home on Christmas Eve
Into this manger stall,
Whoever saves a single life,
It’s said they save us all.
I look into your big brown eyes
And see the light that’s there,
In all God’s creatures great and small
The sacred life we share.
Chorus
WARNING:
GRAPHIC IMAGES OF WHAT EMILY ESCAPED FROM - THE DAIRY INDUSTRY AND THE SLAUGHTERHOUSE.